<%@LANGUAGE="VBSCRIPT" CODEPAGE="1252"%> Alay'nya (Alaynya) Studio and the Troupe Seraband Belly Dance (Bellydance; Mid-Easterm Dance) Community in Greater Metro Washington DC and Northern Virginia NoVA McLean, Alexandria, and Woodbridge, including Fairfax County and Prince William County
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Alay'nya!

Alay'nya - Founder and Artistic Director of Troupe Seraband
Alay’nya doing floorwork - a nearly lost art! Photo Credit: Crystal Barnes, used with permission

Alay'nya, Founder and Chief Instructor for the Alay'nya Studio and Artistic Director of Troupe Seraband, performs extensively throughout the NoVA area, as well as New York and the regional Southeast. She recently premiered "Phoenix," a dance with multiple veils, to rave reviews at the Casablanca.

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Alay'nya's performances emphasize the nearly lost arts of zils, veil, and floorwork. Alay'nya is currently teaching in McLean, VA.

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Archives

Other Letters in the Series

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Banned Books

We love to read. And watch movies. Sometimes, what we like the most isn't always what others say is good for us:

This Month's Most-Recommended Fav Read:

Jackie O did it in the White House!
What Would Jackie Do?

Who'd have thought it? Jackie O., back when she was Jackie K., doing shimmies in the White House! (Could not begin to imagine Barbara following suit.)

What Would Jackie Do

Book nominated by Alay'nya.

If you have a fav read, send a copy to Alay'nya -- or even write a review yourself! (Note though -- I have to read it myself and agree in order to publish your review here.)

  • Miss Kitty has her own collection of "banned books," visit Miss Kitty to learn about her fav reads.
  • Our own "banned books" listing will be coming up soon.

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Bulletin Board

Community networking and interaction: Do you have a skill or service that you want to share?

  • List yourself here! - must be a regular and active member to post a listing
  • Or list a friend's service, if you've had personal experience in working with them - you must also be active to do this.

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(The) Cat House

It all started when, once upon a time, Alay'nya simply had too many cats. Someone in her family suggested that she answer the phone "Alay'nya's belly dance school and cat house." The idea, regrettably, stuck.

But perhaps not a regret. There is a long-standing association between belly dancers and cats. Something about their grace, their sensuality, their self-possession.

Alay'nya with Miss Kitty, Unofficial Mascot of Troupe Seraband
Alay’nya with

There are drug addicts, and there are Dior addicts. Miss Kitty is a confirmed tuna addict. Her motto for life is "More." "More NOW." Actually, we can all learn something from this.

Miss Kitty has the right idea. More is always better. And she'll be happy to tell you how to get "more." Think of this as your divine birthright, and email: misskitty@alaynya.com

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  • "Kitty of the Month," coming soon
  • Other regular "kitty" members appearing soon on a regular basis
  • Look for advice from Miss Kitty!

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Contact Us

E-mail:

  • alaynya@alaynya.com
  • nancy_alaynyastudio@yahoo.com

Phone:

  • Sorry - we're just never home. Please try email.

Mailing Address:

  • P.O. Box 943, McLean, VA 22101

Costumes and Customs

Costumes and Customs are on their own page - we're accepting recommendations from active members - feel free to pass on any good links, sources, and ideas!

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Dialogues - Ongoing Conversations

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Dramatis Personae

About the "regulars" - and some of our more interesting people!

Maha Najeeb
Maha Najeeb! Photo Credit: Lisa Whalen, used with permission

Maha Najeeb, aka "Miss Wabbit," Senior Soloist and Founding Member of Troupe Seraband, performs extensively throughout the NoVA area. "I'm not really bad," she says, "I'm just photo'd that way!"

Visit Maha at her website to learn more about Maha, her art, her dance, and her rabbit.

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Letters from Alay'nya

With luck, fortune, and the grace of the Goddess, an ongoing series ....


This Month's Letter to my "Goddess Daughter(s)" - October, 2007

'Tis The Season (Or At Least It's Getting Very Close!) -- A Pre-Planning "Holiday Survival Guide"

My Dearest Darling God(dess) Daughter –

If you've been with me, and following the suggestions of the past several Letters, then by now your life is calmer and more organized, and so are you. Just in time, also. The "holidays" are nearly upon us!

This is not to get "Scroogey" about the holidays, but we know that they take time, they take energy. (And they take money.) And they all take these things right at the time of year when we would most like to just curl up with a good book or movie, sit in front of the fire with our favorite cat or dog, cuddle our warm animal's warm fur, drink something warm, spicey, and alcoholic, and simply doze through the season until springtime beckons.

And yet, our cultural evolution (or devolution, if you prefer) of "how to deal with the winter blues" has put us all into a great state of distress. It is not that we object to gethering with others, when the alternative is to be cold and lonely by ourselves. And it is not that we object to presents and cards, and anything that could cheer us up, just as we come to the darkest time of the year. And it is not, certainly, that we object to yummy, delicious foods -- who really wants a raw celery stick when the temperatures drop below freezing? (And in some places, they are dropping below freezing this month, and winter times are much more severe.)

We don't object to any of these things in principle -- but what we pragmatically find is that we are being culturally called to a peak level of activity, just as nature and our entire psyche dictates that it is time to slow down and turn inwards.

What is a woman to do?

There are really only three choices. The first is to simply do what most of us have done, which is to deal with the season when it comes up. Then we are cross, irritable, and all to often, exhausted. What should be a "merry" becomes a "mopey." We get so that we can't stand the thought of one more present, one more trip, one more anything. But this is not fun. This is not a joyous experience. And if our goal, our intention, is to have a "delicious life," then undue stress, hassle, and hardship have no place in it.

So there is another choice -- one that I've admittedly done for years. And each time, it was with good excuse. This choice has been to simply "opt out" of the holiday season. "No gifts this year," we say. "No travel." And often, we can come up with an excuse or reason. I've had - and used - them all; from ongoing work crises to recovering from surgery. One recent Christmas, I had a family member who was in need of a "cash infusion." I gave him all my Christmas money -- every last cent. It solved his problem, and mine also -- I didn't have the money to go shopping, so I was "off the hook," with a perfectly rationalizable and socially justifiable excuse.

But this is not a joyous, delicious, delightful way of being. Yes, it is reduced-stress, it is more harmonious with nature and our internal rhythms, but it is not truly joyous. Skipping the holiday season entirely does not cause us to "greet each day with joy," nor does it make our spirits soar.

So there has to be another solution, my dear one. And there is.

The various armed services have a name for it -- "7 P's" -- or "Pro-active Proper Planning Prevents Piss-Poor Performance." And the essence, as you guessed, is to focus on planning and preparation.

Over the next few days, I'll be suggesting some ways and means by which you can create a wonderful, warm, delicious holiday season -- a truly jolly time for both yourself and those you love -- and keep your calm, your sanity, and your sleep schedule in the process. But stay tuned -- and prepare to ACT NOW, because right now, THIS MONTH, is the time when you can create much joy for yourself later!

Live joyfully, my darling! – Alay'nya

P.S. -- What to do now -- while you and I are getting our thoughts and lists in order -- is to get our thoughts and lists in order! Make a list of all the people to whom you'd like to send Christmas cards. Those to whom you want to give a small "token" gift. Those who will receive a somewhat larger gift -- although you could "batch" them, and the gifts need to be thoughtful, but not terribly personal. And then those for whom nothing but the best -- something truly thoughtful and personal will do.

Get your database in order. Whatever your means are - specialized contact management software, or your MS Outlook contact cards, or an Excel Spreadsheet, or even just a good old-fashioned address book. Get it, and go over your names and addresses. Start doing the updates, and making the phone calls and emails needed to get the updates. For many of us, this is a multi-week or multi-weekend project, so start now!


Other Letters in the Series

First Year ("Level 1") Studies

  • March - "The Season of the Diva"
  • April - "Deep Cleaning Our Lives"
  • May - "Good Orderly Direction"
  • June - "Diva Consciousness"
  • July - "Creating Personal Style"
  • September - "Fantasy Requires Determination"
  • November - "Gathering In"
  • December - "Contraction is as Important as Expansion"

Second Year ("Level 2") Studies

  • January - "Coming Through Our Dark Side"
  • June - "Journal of a Fast"
  • July - "He's Doing the Best He Can"
  • December - "Transitioning to Level Three"

Level 3 Studies


A Little Bit About These "Levels" ...

Levels give us clarity about our use of dance as a personal path, as part of our inner evolution. The understanding of these Levels draws from our esoteric Western tradition. Because this approach is a combined body/energy/psyche pathway, the practices supporting our evolution from one Level to another draw from Chinese Taoist energy practices and yoga, as well as traditional women's multicultural dance.

At each Level, we deal with a different aspect of energy work, forming the foundation for our "esoteric dance practice."

Level 1 - "Grounding"

Level 2 - "Releasing Resistance"

Level 3 - "Building, Circulating, and Directing Internal Energy (Ching)"

Level 4 - "Cosmic Dancing: Creating through Intention"

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Links We Like

People, places, things ... and sometimes, just friends ... (and Studio members - feel free to recommend your favs!)

Educational Links

  • Shira has a wonderful site full of all sorts of factual, educational, and cultural articles that she has written. I recommend taking the time to peruse this site often; there is more than is easy to read at virst visit. Well worth your time!
  • A beautiful site with lots of links on Egyptian Belly Dance - worth the visit, for artistic quality and more!

Fashionistas

  • Check out Jean Paul Gaultier's Spring Fashions to see his skirts modeled on both Turkish gypsy ("Rom") as well as classic belly dance skirts. Those of us who've loved these looks for years are style setters this spring!

Friends

  • If you're visiting New York soon, Stella has a wonderful site all about belly dance in New York City that she keeps up-to-date. It includes links to the NYC teachers, belly dance events, good shopping sources, and even to page for belly dancers and their cats!
  • Shell has a long running webstore with a variety of items at The Craft Witch.

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Resources

Fun Things to Do - Around and About the Metro DC Area

  • Hot in the City: "DCist" the best DC blog has tidbits of political and cultural events around the town.
  • The Best of DC: "The Washingtonian" publishes a select guide to the best theater, music, dance, art, and special events that the city has to offer.
  • The "Town and Country" approach to DC: "Washington Life" for DC "high society." You'll need to sign up for access to their site.
  • The "dinner party" way to meet new people: "DC Dinner in the City" carefully arranges "dinners out" (and other lovely events) carefully orchestrated to help you mix and mingle.
  • For more: Washington DC Mettro Area Resources contains links to all sorts of cultural, artistic, and just plain fun opportunities right here in town.

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Teachers

  • Elena Lentini - a wonderful and inspiring dancer - based in New York City. A former student describes classes with Elena.
  • Anahid Sofian - one of the greatest teachers of our time - based in New York City. A former student interviews Anahid.
  • Joe Williams - one of the greatest living proponents of the esteemed Delsarte Method for dance expression. Joe teaches regular workshops with us; please check our calendar to see when the next one will be held, and also send an email to Nancy at nharris2004 at yahoo dot com to be informed of the next Joe workshop!

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Unveiling - The Book

"I always have a book [in progress]," says Karl Pribram, Professor Emeritus at Stanford University and currently with the Georgetown University. So do we - but we're not as prolific, nor as dutiful in getting them published. Here - as there is time to do the posting - will be some excerpts from the one[s] in progress.

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(The) "Usual Suspects"

... for some of the more outrageous goings-on. And those who are likely to be involved.

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Tiraz and WAMEDA

Tiraz Dance Network is a Northern Virginia Mid-Eastern Dance affiliation group sponsoring and supporting educational and community events; good listing of area workshops and events!

"WAMEDA" is a labor of love from leading area dancers and dance aficionados; best guide to DC-area Mediterranean, Mid-Eastern, North African, and Central European dance events -- sponsors events, workshops, and maintains a good area events calendar and teacher's directory!

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